Its annoying when someone interrupting when you are talking...

Pernahkah korang merasa, bila korang sedang sibuk bercerita, tetiba kawan korang cepat2 menyelit dan menyampuk, huish. Itu takpe lagi lah kan sebab setakat menyampuk masa korang sedang bercerita. Yang sakit hati nye bile, korang baru nak mula bercerita, dah ade yang menyelit. Kalau sekali takpe lah. Nih tak, banyak kali lah jugak. Wah wah wah. Hangin satu badan lah aku bila kena macam tu. Nasib baik kawan2. Haih. Sabau jer laa.

Nih ade satu cerita dari website Minti:

"I have a bad habit and I always realize it when it is to late, it can be a destructive one. It is when someone talks to me, I often cut the conversation with my own stories or just cut in or finish the stories for them. It is destructive for the respect of others. Think about it, when you hurry the person to finish her/his sentences, interrupt her/his, it takes a lot more energy because you have to keep track of your ideas and the other person ideas or thoughts.

It makes everybody nervous, and it is annoying even if at the moment it happens we don't realize it. It can cause arguments because the other person feel like you don't listen to her/him or you are not interested in what she/he has to say.. It sound like you are trying to speed up the conversation by interrupting. And really you can not be listening if you always try to finish the sentences of that person. Once you do realize that you do interrupt often others you will realize that it is just a bad habit that became invisible to you and now you can start working on it.

Often really it is because you have a busy life and used to rush alot."

Kepada yang suka menyampuk tuh, nih aku ade sediakan beberapa tips untuk korang. Manfaatkan tips2 nih. Susah nak cari nih:

1. Biar kawan-kawan korang habis bercerita dahulu. Kalau nak menyampuk pun, cakaplah "erm, mintak maap ek, aku nak menyampuk nih".
2. Kawan-kawan korang akan menghargai jika korang kurangkan atau tidak langsung menyampuk semasa mereka bercerita @ bercakap.
3. Kawan-kawan korang akan rasa lebih relax dan tidak mudah berasa pressure dan stress bila lepak dengan korang.
4. Jangan memulakan sesuatu percakapan dengan "Weh, dengar laa cita aku dulu". Ini membuatkan pendengar-pendengar korang, "Wah wah wah, macam stesen radio pun ade die nih".

Ok lah, tu je yang aku rase aku nak tulis.

PS: KEPADA YANG TERASA TUH, AKU MINTAK MAAP BEBANYAK.

PS2: AKU NAK JADIKAN CERITA INI SEBAGAI IKTIBAR DAN PENGAJARAN KAT ORANG LAIN. YER LAH, AKU PUN SUKE GAK CUT N PASTE (MENYAMPUK).